優しい田沢先生

[tsukikage]

今日ＭＬＣに行く前に何か食べ物を買いにマクドに行ったけど、そのマクドで、現金でしか払えないと言われて、何も買えなかった。店を出かける前に偶然に田沢先生にお会いして、ご挨拶しようとしたけど、尊敬語で「先生はお元気ですか」をいう形は覚えられなくて、ただ「先生、今晩は」しか言わなかった。先生が何をお聞きになったか忘れてしまったが、現金が無くて何も買えなかったと説明したら、つい先生におごっていただいた。＾＿＾；田沢先生手優しいね。お礼のメールを書こうか。

Aww, shoot. I forgot that I had a UDS training session today. Granted, even thought it's "required" no-one really goes or cares, but I still was going to be a good girl and go. Ah well.

Also, I chewed both my left middle finger and right thumb to the quick, and they're really tender (esp. my thumb)... Eventually I'll learn my lesson, I hope. *continues to try to trim my middle finger with my teeth* Or not...

On a totally unrelated note, I've decided to stop hating certain people, esp. outwardly. For one, it really is petty and immature, and definitely not flattering. For another, it's not actually how I want to live my life, even if it is only limited to two or three people. In any case, talking badly about people behind their backs = bad.

Comments

[akaneko.livejournal.com]

田沢先生はいつもかっこいいじゃん〜！

[killercherrypie.livejournal.com]

There are only a few people who I truly detest, and I'm not shy about saying it to their faces either. If you are only going to say it behind their backs then it seems that either you are a coward or you are in the wrong/mistaken about them whether or not you know it while you are badmouthing them (and I mean this as a general "you" since everyone does it at some point). It's good that you (specifically) are realizing it and taking an initiative to change your life, which is more than I can say about most gossipers and two-facers.

[tsukikage85.livejournal.com]

Oh, I'm "too polite" to tell people I don't like them to their face. Actually, I don't even think people should tell people they dislike them to their face, except in a few rare situations, or when it would be better for them (for example, I'd want people to diplomatically tell me if they don't like me and would rather me stop trying to be friends with them).

[killercherrypie.livejournal.com]

Well, I was talking about some people who have done some terrible things to me, and it wouldn't just stop at "I dislike you" XD

But yeah, society is basically learning to deal with people who will constantly get on your nerves. It takes a big person to be respectful of people and not fall into the habit of complaining about them behind their backs.

[tsukikage85.livejournal.com]

*nods*

[carve037.livejournal.com]

That's where I'm at. I believe in civility, and I'll be pleasant even to people I detest, unless the situation truly would be improved by open hostility, and sometimes not even then. Nothing makes me more ashamed than losing my temper for no reason, which is why it so rarely happens. I don't, however, see anything wrong with talking to close friends about it to relieve the stress on you, so long as you're not spreading vitriol by doing it.

chewed

[idkrash.livejournal.com]

Re: chewed

[tsukikage85.livejournal.com]

Heh, I'd try it, but besides nervousness I also chew my nails as a way of "fixing" them, which gum wouldn't help with. Same with the face picking. I suppose if I start filing my nails more regularly that would work.