[DL] friend with benefits?
Jul. 23rd, 2003 09:58 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
tsukikageSo... Lanie has the car today, so I didn't have to go driving. Not sure if that's good or bad... Spent some time (ie. 10 mins.) in Tatty, working on going from still to moving. Whee! But I'm getting better. Basically, I'm chanting the mantra of "Steady, Steady, Steady, Steady" so I don't accidentally take off the clutch once the truck starts moving. Pat says I'm starting as he sometimes starts, so that makes me feel happy. ^_^
Got together with a friend today, and we had a nice girly (?) talk. I was very happy to be able to be open with her, and perhaps even more happy that she could be open with me. The thing is... Well, I'm a tad worried about her. She has this "friends with benefits" thing going on, and while I don't object to it, per se, I wonder if it's the best decision. I had this really stupid thing going on in 7th and/or 8th grade (I don't really remember). I mean, it wasn't anything really bad, but I didn't even have hormones at that age!
Anyways, I talked with her about it. I told her that she should take a week or two where she doesn't do anything with him (preferable not even get together) and just work out in her mind what she really wants and feels comfortable with. If she feels she will have no regrets, I'll be glad for her. (I have a good "research" site for her, too. =P)
But, yea... Above all, I don't want her to do anything that she will regret. I think that's key - that's all that matters.
Got together with a friend today, and we had a nice girly (?) talk. I was very happy to be able to be open with her, and perhaps even more happy that she could be open with me. The thing is... Well, I'm a tad worried about her. She has this "friends with benefits" thing going on, and while I don't object to it, per se, I wonder if it's the best decision. I had this really stupid thing going on in 7th and/or 8th grade (I don't really remember). I mean, it wasn't anything really bad, but I didn't even have hormones at that age!
Anyways, I talked with her about it. I told her that she should take a week or two where she doesn't do anything with him (preferable not even get together) and just work out in her mind what she really wants and feels comfortable with. If she feels she will have no regrets, I'll be glad for her. (I have a good "research" site for her, too. =P)
But, yea... Above all, I don't want her to do anything that she will regret. I think that's key - that's all that matters.