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Soooooo shweeeeeepy. But I wanna talk to Pat for a bit before I go to bed. Choices, choices. I'll certainly go to bed by midnight, though - especially as I'm babysitting at 9:30 tomorrow and I have a headache right now.
Also, after leaving work today, Rubel said "see you on Friday". Nine hours of work lost. *pouts* I wonder how long I should wait before applying to Target (or other night-positions of reasonable distance) again...

*random hugs to Nicole*

Yeah, screw that. Bed time. お休みなさい。

Date: 2004-09-08 11:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] disheveledhair.livejournal.com
I am so disappointed right now. You unfriended everyone from the Mall except for Ebony and Luke, which I don't get, though I know they're good people. You have hurt the feelings of people who friended you, people who don't just friend anyone and invite them into their lives, of people who you very recently called "like a third mother" amongst other things. People are upset by your actions and you can't even explain what's going on to our faces. You locked the explaination down to your "friends" only, thanks, good to know that the time we spent together and took you under our wing as a friend meant absolutely nothing to you. And don't give me any bullcrap about it either, because this just proves how much you never really cared about any of us.

We have put up with you spamming our friends pages with inane shit that you know, you could condense into one post, or not post at all, without complaint, even though it annoyed some of us to the point that we had to make a special filter for you or remove you because you were filling up our friends pages with crap and pushing everything important off of our pages. And we still wanted to be your friend, even when you left, we still wanted to include you in things, and now you've just gone and unfriended us and can't even explain it.

It's fucked up that communities mean more to you than people who considered you a friend. That really fucking hurts. You have removed a COMMUNITY OF FRIENDS...and we mean nothing to you. Thanks a whole lot, it's been great, hope you have a nice life, enjoy your "communities".

Date: 2004-09-08 12:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aluminumstudios.livejournal.com
LJ is just an on-line journal. Who you friend and who you don't is often a matter of practicaltiy - such as who's journals you want to read on a regular basis and who you are invovled with on a regular basis versus occasionally versus who is just a random person you meet on the net.

It's really silly to make a big issue of LJ friending politics. A person never really "owes you a friending," likewise you suffer no loss from being unfriended. Getting upset over it is silly.

You shouldn't make such a huge deal over nothing and if you are interested in being someone's friend, you should talk to them rather than yelling at them the second they take your name of a list for an on-line journal. There is far more to life and friendships than on-line journals ...

Date: 2004-09-08 12:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] disheveledhair.livejournal.com
As someone who has no idea what she meant to us, I really don't think you have any place to be saying anything about any of this. This is not about you, this is about me and her and our mutual friends.

I understand LJ friending and how it doesn't matter on the grand scheme of things. What I am upset about is that she had a LOT of people who considered her a friend and she couldn't even tell us what's going on, why she's suddenly not interested in letting us into her life even if we continued to unconditionally let her into ours. As a friend, I feel I am owed an explaination. There is a large group of people here who have hurt feelings because she couldn't afford a common courtesy and we've done nothing to deserve suddenly losing a friend.

It is a huge deal to me because I don't friend just anyone, I don't open my life to just anyone, and that we could just be tossed away with the trash, let go of even though she's still in her Nazi communities amongst various others, that hurts. When your only way of communication with a friend is livejournal, it kind of means something when that's taken away without explaination.

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