sex opinion stupidity
Mar. 1st, 2009 02:09 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
tsukikageJust as much as I hate it when people are all "God says sex is for marriage and it's the only possible way to enjoy sex", I also hate the people who think that there's something wrong with waiting until marriage. Like when people say that you won't be able to please your husband/wife if you wait until marriage? So the fuck what? Do we get all worried that we won't be able to please our first boyfriend, so we need to have random casual sex before that? Maybe there's a such thing as sexual incompatibility and it's a bad idea not to have sex with someone before you marry them, but I'm still not sure I buy that... If you have a strong enough relationship to get married, I figure you have a strong enough relationship to work together to figure out any sexual difficulties you have.
Seriously, basically every strongly opinioned commenter here manages to come off like an idiot. Well, no, I'm exaggerating... But many of them do, anyway.
Studies have shown that people who have pre-marital sex will be more likely to divorce or have unhappy marriages.
I won't say anything as to the truth or falsity of this statement, but a) they're more likely to report having unhappy marriages, and b) ever heard of causation considerations? Perhaps the same type of people who are against pre-marital sex (i.e., Christians) are also against divorce.
Ugh.
Anyways.
Bought Romeo a laser pointer. Much amusement has been had.
Bought a shitload of groceries, which actually ended up in frustrations from Dad again. Some of which I admit to being my fault, some of which I don't. Business as usual.
Random note on grocery shopping: why did Rainbow not have bean sprouts. Seriously?
Submitted my Hamlet assignment, minus a couple of too-creative questions I decided to delay indefinitely on. Maybe I'll do them before finishing the course, maybe not. On to As You Like It.
That's enough for now.
[EDIT: Doing my best to overheat myself with clothes, because fuck am I cold. I currently have a turtleneck sweater, a sweatshirt, a thin-ish zippered sweatshirt, and my bathrobe on. I might end up adding another layer later...]
Seriously, basically every strongly opinioned commenter here manages to come off like an idiot. Well, no, I'm exaggerating... But many of them do, anyway.
Studies have shown that people who have pre-marital sex will be more likely to divorce or have unhappy marriages.
I won't say anything as to the truth or falsity of this statement, but a) they're more likely to report having unhappy marriages, and b) ever heard of causation considerations? Perhaps the same type of people who are against pre-marital sex (i.e., Christians) are also against divorce.
Ugh.
Anyways.
Bought Romeo a laser pointer. Much amusement has been had.
Bought a shitload of groceries, which actually ended up in frustrations from Dad again. Some of which I admit to being my fault, some of which I don't. Business as usual.
Random note on grocery shopping: why did Rainbow not have bean sprouts. Seriously?
Submitted my Hamlet assignment, minus a couple of too-creative questions I decided to delay indefinitely on. Maybe I'll do them before finishing the course, maybe not. On to As You Like It.
That's enough for now.
[EDIT: Doing my best to overheat myself with clothes, because fuck am I cold. I currently have a turtleneck sweater, a sweatshirt, a thin-ish zippered sweatshirt, and my bathrobe on. I might end up adding another layer later...]
