i know you love him with all your might. but sometimes, you just have to take down the tent and move the crusade along... it just didnt work and you have to let it go. i know its hard... i know all too well, but at the same time, i know when to accept that my best was good, but not good enough. you just have to realise that you shouldnt have to change the person youve become to suit someone else. yes, he may want you to, but would you want him to change himself totally for you? you love him for who he is and what he is and maybe for some things hes not... you wouldnt want him to change, so why should you? he should love you for who you are and all the things youre not... he shouldnt demand a new nachan, because if he did, you wouldnt be you anymore. youd just be a dream. i love you the way you are, bonkersosity and all. yeah, there are times when i think you need a stern shaking, but you are you and that is all you can be. you might want to be clever and all that, but accepting who you are now is the first step to bettering yourself as a person anyways. love yourself a bit first and then see who loves you after that. you cant change for someone else, but if youre determined to change, you should try for yourself. im with you the whole way (i have some changing to do as well). GANBAROU~
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branchandroot
oh honey
Date: 2006-07-30 04:52 am (UTC)you just have to realise that you shouldnt have to change the person youve become to suit someone else. yes, he may want you to, but would you want him to change himself totally for you? you love him for who he is and what he is and maybe for some things hes not... you wouldnt want him to change, so why should you? he should love you for who you are and all the things youre not... he shouldnt demand a new nachan, because if he did, you wouldnt be you anymore. youd just be a dream.
i love you the way you are, bonkersosity and all. yeah, there are times when i think you need a stern shaking, but you are you and that is all you can be. you might want to be clever and all that, but accepting who you are now is the first step to bettering yourself as a person anyways.
love yourself a bit first and then see who loves you after that. you cant change for someone else, but if youre determined to change, you should try for yourself. im with you the whole way (i have some changing to do as well).
GANBAROU~